tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4904021173466473381.post3954249662430763339..comments2023-10-11T04:09:53.564-07:00Comments on materfamilias writes: Monday, Monday...materfamiliashttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16062766947897513369noreply@blogger.comBlogger18125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4904021173466473381.post-83094417028451660102015-11-21T07:17:22.969-08:002015-11-21T07:17:22.969-08:00Thanks for thinking about this with me, and I'...Thanks for thinking about this with me, and I'll look forward to your post. I do think that we need to be pretty conscious of the personal filters we see and feel the world through. . . "a show of our shock" and "complacent" -- these terms resonate for me. I've heard and read too much patting things back into place. . .materfamiliashttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16062766947897513369noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4904021173466473381.post-75262566912375376382015-11-18T07:40:08.348-08:002015-11-18T07:40:08.348-08:00I don't know what to say, and it seems this, a...I don't know what to say, and it seems this, admitting to the confusion and the pain and the roller coaster of the personal versus the shock and sadness of the greater world, is very profound. Sometimes I think we are too willing to come around, make a show of our shock and then retreat back into the safety of our complacent lives. Oops. Your blog. Maybe I'll need to say something after all, when the words settle.Mardelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04850551308931710502noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4904021173466473381.post-54338766281603750512015-11-18T03:33:32.485-08:002015-11-18T03:33:32.485-08:00This comment has been removed by the author.Studio https://www.blogger.com/profile/08258094086684252360noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4904021173466473381.post-18925892012002011332015-11-17T08:46:09.821-08:002015-11-17T08:46:09.821-08:00They did help, Rosie, they always do. Thank you!They did help, Rosie, they always do. Thank you!materfamiliashttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16062766947897513369noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4904021173466473381.post-51586917864015808432015-11-17T08:44:11.896-08:002015-11-17T08:44:11.896-08:00Yes, well...new rules of engagement in process... ...Yes, well...new rules of engagement in process... We learn....materfamiliashttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16062766947897513369noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4904021173466473381.post-52643265361052211262015-11-17T08:42:31.754-08:002015-11-17T08:42:31.754-08:00Yes, if only we could make sure all the little one...Yes, if only we could make sure all the little ones could be cuddled, in warmth and security...materfamiliashttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16062766947897513369noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4904021173466473381.post-33093582794089795302015-11-17T08:40:58.248-08:002015-11-17T08:40:58.248-08:00Aw thanks. D!Aw thanks. D!materfamiliashttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16062766947897513369noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4904021173466473381.post-19545058137105766262015-11-17T08:40:29.710-08:002015-11-17T08:40:29.710-08:00Yes, exactly. It's so individual.Yes, exactly. It's so individual.materfamiliashttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16062766947897513369noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4904021173466473381.post-59770968378019489522015-11-17T08:38:57.630-08:002015-11-17T08:38:57.630-08:00Humour does help, but nothing beats hugging little...Humour does help, but nothing beats hugging little kids. I'm also indulging in #fictiontherapy. But we've had rainstorm after windstorm after rainstorm here with nothing in sight but more of the same. Doesn't help...😉materfamiliashttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16062766947897513369noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4904021173466473381.post-64438807590916417312015-11-17T08:37:20.519-08:002015-11-17T08:37:20.519-08:00I enjoyed that post, Sue, and I don't think we...I enjoyed that post, Sue, and I don't think we should or can stop caring about all the other things in our lives. We need to focus on the good and the beautiful to maintain resilience, commitment to kindness, etc. I just found my emotional energy at too low an ebb to speak any important truths, however small or supposedly superficial--just a coincidence between the personal and the global hits.materfamiliashttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16062766947897513369noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4904021173466473381.post-32505931480204230272015-11-17T01:40:00.336-08:002015-11-17T01:40:00.336-08:00Hugs back to you Frances. Sorry you've had suc...Hugs back to you Frances. Sorry you've had such a tough and emotional few days. I m sure cuddles from your grandchildren will help to soothe things.<br />Take care ...<br />RosieRosiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15718521437964866609noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4904021173466473381.post-9415966671037215322015-11-16T19:30:48.874-08:002015-11-16T19:30:48.874-08:00I think your reaction is very real and strong and ...I think your reaction is very real and strong and useful to those of us reading.<br /><br />Sorry you had sister-trip bruising:(LPChttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18209861350905135093noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4904021173466473381.post-31095228407245512962015-11-16T16:45:38.959-08:002015-11-16T16:45:38.959-08:00The Paris events are overwhelming...
I have seen i...The Paris events are overwhelming...<br />I have seen images of Parisians gathered together with signs saying "We are Not Afraid." They have been standing in long lines waiting hours to donate blood for those who have been injured...many are going about their daily routines. It must take great courage to press on...<br />Having a little one around is a great tonic to these devastating world events.<br />Enjoy those cuddles.hostess of the humble bungalowhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06453827257671312902noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4904021173466473381.post-57878156764081879552015-11-16T15:26:09.893-08:002015-11-16T15:26:09.893-08:00Thanks Sue! And Frances - I know that out of sorts...Thanks Sue! And Frances - I know that out of sorts feeling of which you speak though, as Sue suggests, I don't have that Paris connection. Still, it's an iconic city and every city, iconic or no, deserves peace and safety. On a more happy note - your nephew's doing fantastically with his comedy and you know they say that laughter is the way through everything. Maybe watch a funny movie? I should take that advice while I knit :-)K.Linehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15350615302797686048noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4904021173466473381.post-89390561947061457112015-11-16T13:44:55.394-08:002015-11-16T13:44:55.394-08:00I'm so glad for your nephew and sad for your e...I'm so glad for your nephew and sad for your emotional bumps <3<br />Thank God for little ones (and bigger ones,too)<br />DottoressaAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4904021173466473381.post-55443535048928498912015-11-16T11:42:21.092-08:002015-11-16T11:42:21.092-08:00The array of responses to the latest attacks run t...The array of responses to the latest attacks run the gamut, but respond we must, each in our way. Duchessehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09986153653120526776noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4904021173466473381.post-3664441750091195172015-11-16T11:17:16.721-08:002015-11-16T11:17:16.721-08:00Meant to add that I loved K-line's blog post.....Meant to add that I loved K-line's blog post..."When the world's gone crazy you may as well knit"... hopefully I quoted that correctly.Sue Burpeehttp://highheelsinthewilderness.blogspot.canoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4904021173466473381.post-43383287990701650082015-11-16T11:05:14.741-08:002015-11-16T11:05:14.741-08:00I feel much the same Frances, albeit with a much l...I feel much the same Frances, albeit with a much less strong connection to Paris than you. I tried and failed to say something intelligent in reply to Lisa's thoughtful blog on Saturday. Then I went and wrote a blog about vintage fashion and thought about not publishing it. Then reread an article I had included a link to about the "Fashion on the Ration" exhibit in London last spring which describes the importance of fashion to women during WWII and thought...what the heck... and pressed publish.... feeling a bit shallow all the while. Ah well... as Popeye said, "I y'am what I'yam" or something similar. See what I mean... nothing sensible to say. Hope your feeling more cheery later in the week. Sue Burpeehttp://highheelsinthewilderness.blogspot.canoreply@blogger.com