tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4904021173466473381.post4579939071108818867..comments2023-10-11T04:09:53.564-07:00Comments on materfamilias writes: Festive Shopping -- No, really!materfamiliashttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16062766947897513369noreply@blogger.comBlogger23125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4904021173466473381.post-2176421863803792342013-12-17T14:21:21.653-08:002013-12-17T14:21:21.653-08:00It would take more martinis than is safe for me to...It would take more martinis than is safe for me to want to shop with a 16-year-old son, back in the day . . . I do hope that you manage to capture a bit of the season's joy, but it must be tough with family illness and unexpected travel jogging tight schedules out of whack. . . materfamiliashttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16062766947897513369noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4904021173466473381.post-32829243397733619462013-12-17T14:18:58.052-08:002013-12-17T14:18:58.052-08:00I have, actually, tried to buy one daughter boots ...I have, actually, tried to buy one daughter boots in the past. Listened to all the details, spent a few hours searching, got as close as I could imagine and they still got returned. . . . so now, Togetherness Rules!<br />But I'd be exactly the same as you, indulging in choosing a gift for your son's GF -- in fact, I did dash back in to add a surprise for my DIL's package.materfamiliashttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16062766947897513369noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4904021173466473381.post-80743376010165373452013-12-17T13:43:04.368-08:002013-12-17T13:43:04.368-08:00What a great way to shop. I think I'll try thi...What a great way to shop. I think I'll try this when mine are a bit older, although Kid 2 (13) might be ready (minus the martinis). Kid 1 is a surly 16-year-old boy who would probably rather DIE than go shopping with his middle-aged mum, so that might have to wait a few years. I feel a bit sad that this year has been such a non-Christmas for me because I usually love the lead-up with all the making and baking and decorating, etc ... Tiffanynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4904021173466473381.post-53001522355108029252013-12-17T11:42:05.321-08:002013-12-17T11:42:05.321-08:00I know! I'm not a humbug person, generally. Oh...I know! I'm not a humbug person, generally. Oh well...K.Linehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15350615302797686048noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4904021173466473381.post-52421865155225821992013-12-17T11:36:39.841-08:002013-12-17T11:36:39.841-08:00I stumbled upon this approach and agree it's g...I stumbled upon this approach and agree it's great for adult children. Both my sons said they wanted boots, and who can buy those without try-ons? So off we went to the shops and the pub. <br /><br />But for my son's sweetie, I have still indulged my love of a carefully chosen gift. Since I had no daughters, being able to buy for a female is such fun! And I do have her mother, who's become a friend, to check with before buying.Duchessehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09986153653120526776noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4904021173466473381.post-54195732792662119562013-12-17T07:30:50.597-08:002013-12-17T07:30:50.597-08:00Yes, this is exactly what I mean. In past years, I...Yes, this is exactly what I mean. In past years, I saw myself at times, I think, rather as the matriarch who had to keep traditions in play. Now, I'm looking ahead and envisioning the kids making their own traditions out of the old. It's quite wonderful watching them take on most of the holiday responsibilities and figuring how we can fit meaningfully into the new scenario.<br />Take care with that foot -- healing goes so much more quickly if those first weeks are nurturing. . . Your tree-finishing party is a great approach. And so good to have the grading done -- I'm almost there myself!materfamiliashttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16062766947897513369noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4904021173466473381.post-37869505408815701562013-12-17T07:27:06.114-08:002013-12-17T07:27:06.114-08:00They're surprisingly versatile for all their c...They're surprisingly versatile for all their coating -- I'd feared they might be a bit too flash, but they seem just to read as crisp/sharp. The Citizens I tried were much more faux-leather, a bit plusher/thicker -- also cool, but I find these much more wearable for everyday edge.materfamiliashttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16062766947897513369noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4904021173466473381.post-30609171763532537612013-12-17T07:21:11.168-08:002013-12-17T07:21:11.168-08:00Merci, merci!
I think it helps with the non-drudg...Merci, merci! <br />I think it helps with the non-drudgery that I have not yet set foot in a mall. . . . And I'm parcelling it out so that I never try for more than two hours at a time. And good company!materfamiliashttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16062766947897513369noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4904021173466473381.post-59073573336702660142013-12-17T07:19:15.971-08:002013-12-17T07:19:15.971-08:00Thanks, Sue -- it was a festive shopping afternoon...Thanks, Sue -- it was a festive shopping afternoon, and I'm hoping for another one today. materfamiliashttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16062766947897513369noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4904021173466473381.post-8085590568927913482013-12-17T07:18:11.873-08:002013-12-17T07:18:11.873-08:00It's true that my son had a much tougher time ...It's true that my son had a much tougher time than my daughter and daughter-in-law. We started with him, knowing his attention span was limited, and we did all his shopping in one shop. <br />It is a great combination, isn't it? Worth risking a dry-cleaning bill for -- so far I've got 2 wearings out of it, and it's still unspotted. . . knock on wood!materfamiliashttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16062766947897513369noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4904021173466473381.post-35222621061716236562013-12-17T07:15:31.551-08:002013-12-17T07:15:31.551-08:00I think one of the most essential aspects of aging...I think one of the most essential aspects of aging is continuing to explore new ways to accomplish things. Your approach to this sounds great. I am home bound this year after foot surgery so I have had to content myself with finding new ways to internet shop combined with short trips to my favorite local stores when I have someone to drive. I would have disdained this approach in past years as being impersonal, but much has been fun and it is the best I can do! The tree is half trimmed, and we just decided to have a "finish the tree" party when the grown kids arrive tomorrow. Grading is done so that is a great relief!<br />LynnAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4904021173466473381.post-4573493989079590662013-12-17T07:14:47.277-08:002013-12-17T07:14:47.277-08:00I'm surprising myself with my size at the mome...I'm surprising myself with my size at the moment, but really, I'm only returning to where my body's meant to be. And honesty's welcome, in this case. . . . I do know how fortunate I am in my kids.materfamiliashttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16062766947897513369noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4904021173466473381.post-42226169927165013222013-12-17T07:09:56.381-08:002013-12-17T07:09:56.381-08:00Yes, the cocktail in the late afternoon should pro...Yes, the cocktail in the late afternoon should probably not be followed by any shopping. We just stayed put, and I stuck to wine. . . and, luckily, I'd turned off my shopping switch. ;-)materfamiliashttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16062766947897513369noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4904021173466473381.post-15692193802768073382013-12-17T07:06:29.982-08:002013-12-17T07:06:29.982-08:00I'm not surprised your festive feelings have b...I'm not surprised your festive feelings have been dispelled. Besides having your mom's health on your mind, an over-busy work schedule is a big distraction. I suspect you will be back by next year -- I remember all the wonderful baking and wrapping and nomnom cooking you've done other years. . . . materfamiliashttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16062766947897513369noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4904021173466473381.post-91824467652691350302013-12-17T07:04:59.304-08:002013-12-17T07:04:59.304-08:00I love it! Festive indeed to grab a bit of blogwor...I love it! Festive indeed to grab a bit of blogworld during a workday.<br />Your children must have loved having such a special day one-on-one with Mom. <br />I ended up with a Negroni rather than a Martini, but I managed to steal a few sips from a daughter's, just enough. . . .materfamiliashttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16062766947897513369noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4904021173466473381.post-21168860708029129012013-12-17T00:50:23.588-08:002013-12-17T00:50:23.588-08:00Sounds like a fantastic idea - I might try it with...Sounds like a fantastic idea - I might try it with my brother! Great outfit, I'm going to check out the J Brand jeans, quite fancy a pair myself.That's Not My Agehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16052973075052114955noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4904021173466473381.post-87280188166114666902013-12-17T00:14:53.655-08:002013-12-17T00:14:53.655-08:00Oo-la-la, that outfit looks very French to me, not...Oo-la-la, that outfit looks very French to me, not that I would have a clue what real France French looks like. But it fits my imagination very well. I'm glad you're turning what many regard as drudgery into an enjoyable event. Melaniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06218727738029858422noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4904021173466473381.post-11456146002472177232013-12-16T21:50:50.710-08:002013-12-16T21:50:50.710-08:00I love the idea of an in-person gift shopping expe...I love the idea of an in-person gift shopping expedition! I think it's a great way to capture the spirit of the season. You look fabulous in that outfit, and very svelte too.Susan Bhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16005855250089328310noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4904021173466473381.post-44281766692201159792013-12-16T19:09:39.316-08:002013-12-16T19:09:39.316-08:00This sounds like a perfect way to enjoy your Chris...This sounds like a perfect way to enjoy your Christmas shopping! Our boys do not enjoy shopping, so I don't see this happening at all, at least perhaps until they acquire significant others!! Right now we rely on Amazon wish lists and the like. <br /><br />I'd also be a bit wary of such a lovely silk blouse at mealtime - I tend towards the messy as well. But - pale pink and black ... a lovely combination.Patriciahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05504513116873595049noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4904021173466473381.post-22249513585786672312013-12-16T17:08:02.114-08:002013-12-16T17:08:02.114-08:00My gosh. I'm just noticing how slender you are...My gosh. I'm just noticing how slender you are:).<br /><br />And jealous that you had so many kids, if I'm honest.LPChttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18209861350905135093noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4904021173466473381.post-78606668582753969392013-12-16T15:53:13.412-08:002013-12-16T15:53:13.412-08:00I like your approach to shopping and socializing a...I like your approach to shopping and socializing at the same time. It sounds like win win all around. Must say that your outfit looks very chic and I can understand the love of a great pair of jeans! <br />I've never had a martini in the afternoon and think if I did I might be tempted to go a bit mad spending money....especially in Vancouver with all those high end shops. hostess of the humble bungalowhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06453827257671312902noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4904021173466473381.post-77800263760088587142013-12-16T15:52:59.390-08:002013-12-16T15:52:59.390-08:00You've got a great system - how lovely it must...You've got a great system - how lovely it must be to feel festive this season! (Don't worry, I'm sure my festive vibe will return for next year - gotta hope.) Seems like you're making a very nice holiday time.K.Linehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15350615302797686048noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4904021173466473381.post-32520196940779296202013-12-16T14:41:25.275-08:002013-12-16T14:41:25.275-08:00I'm fostering my festive spirit by sneaking on...I'm fostering my festive spirit by sneaking online in the middle of the workday!<br />I like your idea of spending the lovely time with grown children. It's something I started to do when the children were in about grade three - a day off from school, lunch and shopping just for them, one at a time. I haven't been able to do this with my son for many years because he lives in another province, but I treasure the dates with my daughter. I like to know that what I buy is really desired - and I have the treat of her company. <br />Martinis - now there's something I'll have to suggest. Pondsidehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02407539138546412482noreply@blogger.com