tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4904021173466473381.post1821087084748842434..comments2023-10-11T04:09:53.564-07:00Comments on materfamilias writes: Post-travel Adjusting, Dog-gedly materfamiliashttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16062766947897513369noreply@blogger.comBlogger19125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4904021173466473381.post-52470212005054783372015-10-28T15:08:41.729-07:002015-10-28T15:08:41.729-07:00Love the doggie photos. Didn't know I needed ...Love the doggie photos. Didn't know I needed a dog until one found me. Now I realize potential travel plans have changed. But all in its own time. Puttering, catching up, sorting out, all important.Mardelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04850551308931710502noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4904021173466473381.post-81036185126329339992015-10-28T14:28:58.291-07:002015-10-28T14:28:58.291-07:00Sounds as if many of us are at the same stage, wan...Sounds as if many of us are at the same stage, wanting a dog, but aware that it's not quite time yet. I agree that it would be lovely to have one as a walking companion. Someday. . . materfamiliashttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16062766947897513369noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4904021173466473381.post-41942406882335485232015-10-28T14:27:55.175-07:002015-10-28T14:27:55.175-07:00Thanks, Joanna -- glad you enjoy the posts. I love...Thanks, Joanna -- glad you enjoy the posts. I love your Instagrams and, as you know, drool over your beautiful jewelry. One of these days, one of those pieces will be mine, once our dollar co-operates (actually, my sisters and I are traveling to Whidbey Island in a few weeks, but I suspect we won't swing through downtown Seattle. Too bad. . . )materfamiliashttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16062766947897513369noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4904021173466473381.post-18296512558003291432015-10-28T14:25:45.395-07:002015-10-28T14:25:45.395-07:00Yes, it caught me, somehow, that notion of slowing...Yes, it caught me, somehow, that notion of slowing down and catching up. . . materfamiliashttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16062766947897513369noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4904021173466473381.post-65613101787139711202015-10-28T14:25:26.649-07:002015-10-28T14:25:26.649-07:00This is my ambivalence as well (and my husband isn...This is my ambivalence as well (and my husband isn't even ambivalent!)<br />Good advice about growing my retirement self. I hope I can let it evolve. . .materfamiliashttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16062766947897513369noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4904021173466473381.post-60344664143153099282015-10-28T14:24:34.931-07:002015-10-28T14:24:34.931-07:00It's true -- when I think of London, I don'...It's true -- when I think of London, I don't think of dogs as much as when I think of Paris . . . your collie must have been very sweet to stay with you so very long.<br />It takes a while to sort out that Polyvore on the floor AFTER the trip, yes? Not quite as much fun as before!materfamiliashttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16062766947897513369noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4904021173466473381.post-10919236506398095102015-10-28T14:22:46.229-07:002015-10-28T14:22:46.229-07:00Jane, that's an important point you make -- th...Jane, that's an important point you make -- the dogs show up in so many places in Europe that I'm not accustomed to -- it would raise my eyebrows more except that they are socialized to it and expected to behave and, generally, to maintain a low profile. No requirement that I tolerate their jumping nor would I be expected to fawn over them.materfamiliashttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16062766947897513369noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4904021173466473381.post-11042965214585459022015-10-28T14:21:12.489-07:002015-10-28T14:21:12.489-07:00It's true! We've a hand-me-down cat, and s...It's true! We've a hand-me-down cat, and she's much easier to have cared for while we're away. A pup just wouldn't work right now.<br />materfamiliashttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16062766947897513369noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4904021173466473381.post-68797147686774175182015-10-27T20:56:43.581-07:002015-10-27T20:56:43.581-07:00Love the dog pictures ... really cute. I've al...Love the dog pictures ... really cute. I've always said we'd get a dog if we ever stop travelling (and I don't want that to happen yet! ) as I'd find it hard to leave it behind for weeks and I'd feel it wasn't fair on him or her. I do think it would be lovely to have one to go walking with though ... <br />RosieAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4904021173466473381.post-77945266755593781702015-10-27T19:06:56.812-07:002015-10-27T19:06:56.812-07:00I am enjoying your blog, and love the daily Instag...I am enjoying your blog, and love the daily Instagram posts! As I have a little pooch (almost always with me), seeing dogs on your blog makes me smile. I followed the seven weeks of your fabulous European adventure, such a wonderful experience! I hope you will make it to Seattle! xo JoannaAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17578971772796710288noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4904021173466473381.post-20436083648216388772015-10-27T08:01:42.520-07:002015-10-27T08:01:42.520-07:00Doggies:). And I am happy you think about my post....Doggies:). And I am happy you think about my post. I really look forward to your thoughts. Time is important, standing close to yourself, and stepping back.LPChttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18209861350905135093noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4904021173466473381.post-34459459510751807442015-10-27T01:02:58.524-07:002015-10-27T01:02:58.524-07:00Love the dog panoply, ambivalent about getting a d...Love the dog panoply, ambivalent about getting a dog in retirement as we want to be free to up and go to Europe (or more accurately since we're part of Europe, to continental Europe) on a train with a rucksack apiece. <br />Your working life identity didn't happen instantly and fully formed, so your next stage identity will take time to grow. Important to give it time.Lindahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11269887100694066103noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4904021173466473381.post-87448274368145524722015-10-26T23:31:29.168-07:002015-10-26T23:31:29.168-07:00Oh,they are so cute......I want one,too. I had a c...Oh,they are so cute......I want one,too. I had a collie once,it was such a love,it makes me cry after 25 years.<br />Interesting,when in London last week,I spotted only two or three dogs,no more,and the city has no traces at all on the pavements.<br />I didn't know about Ferrante approach, but quite intelligible,Dona Leon doesn't approve translation in italian for her books,too<br />Have nice days with your family,I landed yesterday and have Polyvore mess on the floor but have lot to do ,so it will stay for a day<br />Combinaton of structure,coherence and completely free time (in a day,in a week and in the month ) works best for me and I am completely sure that you are going to find your golden section<br />DottoressaAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4904021173466473381.post-52329152707938176092015-10-26T18:00:09.518-07:002015-10-26T18:00:09.518-07:00Thanks for the wonderful dog pictures. I've b...Thanks for the wonderful dog pictures. I've become a full blown dog fanatic since retiring and little Lucky the rescue dog goes many places with us but does not fly, poor guy. I certainly envy European life where dogs are such frequent companions and so socialized to urban life and different environments.Jane Mhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10236298438179825569noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4904021173466473381.post-45513521914767708072015-10-26T09:40:35.668-07:002015-10-26T09:40:35.668-07:00Love all the dogs..in theory that is..right now as...Love all the dogs..in theory that is..right now as we travel a lot, so a cat is what we are enjoying as he takes our absences better than a pup:) <br />Take your time on charting your retirement course! Enjoy your alone time and grandkid time..Best Coco Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4904021173466473381.post-26165170896906364752015-10-26T08:59:53.861-07:002015-10-26T08:59:53.861-07:00Oooh, your comment sent me off to read about Lurch...Oooh, your comment sent me off to read about Lurchers as Pets and now I want one as well. But see my response, above, to Mme L-B. . . (insert sad-face emoticon here). I like your idea of a dog-photog day. . . Hey, I just realized this is a dog-photog-blogpost. . . oh dear!materfamiliashttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16062766947897513369noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4904021173466473381.post-72482741167616970122015-10-26T08:57:28.750-07:002015-10-26T08:57:28.750-07:00I was watching for you, Mme. ;-)
I'm just gett...I was watching for you, Mme. ;-)<br />I'm just getting ready to dive into the fourth and final Ferrante Neapolitian book -- the series is so good! I've read a bit about Ferrante's anonymity, the speculation that's been made around it -- I tend to agree with her about the author's role once the book is published. <br />I'd love to have a dog as a retirement project, but my guy isn't ready for another, and I have to admit it wouldn't be a good time for us . . . Yet. . .Enjoy yours!materfamiliashttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16062766947897513369noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4904021173466473381.post-20628102443522424422015-10-26T07:49:00.808-07:002015-10-26T07:49:00.808-07:00I think you should allocate one day a week for dog...I think you should allocate one day a week for dog photography , but then I am biased & can't get enough of them . I have two rescued Lurchers that fill my life with much exercise, laughter & , yes , exasperation at times . So thanks for this post .<br />Wendy in YorkAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4904021173466473381.post-50784268533671435152015-10-26T07:29:05.201-07:002015-10-26T07:29:05.201-07:00I am more aware of dogs since we got our little on...I am more aware of dogs since we got our little one. She's five months old now and Monsieur who has never had children shows a bit of his nurturing (and more indulgent)<br />side. A different retirement project! Once more we could have crossed paths as I was at Olympic Village and Granville Island to volunteer for the Writer's Festival. The most interesting talk I heard was Elizabeth Hay, Lauren Groff and two others discussing the anonymity of Italian novelist Elena Ferrante who maintains that, once the book is written, the author need play no other role. I bought the first book of the Neapolitan series. Have you read it? Madame Là-bashttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16703782237948233124noreply@blogger.com